Saturday, March 31, 2012

Steve and Charlie -- what a pair


He walked towards the table, never taking his eyes from the sign advertising "Free Hot Drinks". "Would you like a hot drink sir?" I asked, surprised at my own extra tenderness. I didn't want to hurt his pride, but he looked rather pitiful. "It's free." I assured him. Looking up with wide round blue eyes he told Elise and I, "coffee, yes, coffee." Coffee was soon on the way. As I prepared the coffee Elise asked him how he was doing. [Mind you it's freezing outside.] He nodded up and down, "I'm going to the tower of London. Yeah, yeah, I'm going to the tower of London this afternoon." "I"Oh wow, cool." We say. "Have you ever been there before?" Elise asks. "Yeah", he says. I handed him his coffee. Unlike most who stop for tea, coffee, or hot chocolate he hung around for some time. He told us of his family, of the area, and of his wedding the following day which then later turned out to be the following week. I don't know whether or not he was serious, I have my doubts, but you know what? Looking into this man's eyes I was deeply moved to remember that God has a wild passion for knowing this man, whom we later learned is "Steve".

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Also wanting coffee a young woman, whom we learned is originally from California, came to us with a smile and spunk. Dear Steve informed her that he was visiting the Tower of London later that afternoon. With kind courtesy she smiled, "ohhh." Then giving me her business card in hopes to do a photography shoot she left. Next came an older man, that same extra tenderness gripping Elise and my heart once again. "Hello sir, would you like a hot drink?" His eyes looked from the table to us and then to the table once again. "It's cold out. What would you like? We have coffee, tea or hot chocolate. It's free." I said. "Coffee." He replied. As Elise prepared the coffee we learned his name was Charlie. "Charlie! That's one of my favorite names!", I exclaimed. "It's my brothers name." And "Steve" so happened to be Elise's father's name. Immediately that bridged a connection between us. During our chat with the men we learned they go to church, but knowing we don't have long I challenged them. "What church?" I asked. Silence. Some obvious racking the brain, then a response that seemed to deem the idea they named a church nearby. "That's okay, we just want you to know that you're important to God." Elise and I responded. Our heart went out to these men whom, I dare say, may be homeless. Charlie seemed fine but at times he shook so bad, not even noticing the coffee sploshing out of his cup. "Here, please have some biscuits. One cookie is simply not enough." We encouraged. Then comically, Charlie encouraged Steve to eat more biscuits before he took more for his own. Which really melted our hearts. As they chewed on their biscuits we chatted, I can't recall what we talked about but I do remember they were in no rush and that Charlie wished he had a job. Upon seeing Charlie shake once more, we had enough. Elise pulled out a hot packet from her pocket, took Charlie's drink from his hand, put it on the table and placed the hot packet between his hands and began to rub them for half a minute. ...

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"I have a question. " I asked, looking at them. "What would you want God to do in your life this year, if He could do anything?" - "If you could ask God for anything. What would it be?" Elise summed up. Steve stared into his coffee and softly said, "forgiveness. I would ask God for forgiveness." He shared in certain dismay. Ouch, my heart hurt. As we encouraged Charlie to think about it, we responded to Steve by telling him that's why Jesus came. We assured him that Christ came to earth to forgive him. We assured them both that they are important to God, and that they are dearly loved. [Trying to get across that God's love and grace is free.] But I will admit, because this world is filled with pain and suffering, how are they going to see God's love for them? People treat them rather poorly. We could see that in people passing and stopping for a hot drink. I won't go without saying I have been guilty of treating strangers poorly when I could have extended a kind word or glance, oh how I'm ashamed of that...So, how will they see God? Will their hearts be hardened by our cold treatment of them? Before they departed we held their hands between ours and rubbed them as we brought them before the Lord. I'm praying that the Lord will use our time with them to show them they're worth knowing and listening to. We're praying that Charlie continues to think about what it would be, that he would ask God for, and we trust that God has the rest in His hands.

*Soon after saying goodbye our new friend from California came by, rummaging through her purse. We greeted her. She smiled but was obviously flustered. To our surprise she yelled, "Where's my f** lighter?! Ha, I'm sure glad those guys are gone. I was like oh my goodness. You know you can just never be too careful." In complete understanding we agreed with her. "Yeah, we need to be careful and I hope they do well, it was wonderful talking with them." Our soft loving response caught her off guard. She could not find her lighter but what she did say was without words. Without a doubt we could tell she was saddened by her own words of judgement on Steve and Charlie. It was seen in her eyes, the way she said goodbye and in her sad smile.

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What does it take for us love others? Like our friend said, sometimes you can't be too careful. But, when is it unhealthy to walk by and wait for God to do something through someone else? Sure, maybe it's talking to someone that is outside your comfort zone. But I don't want to be guilty of sitting around and waiting for somebody else to do what God has called me to do myself. Think about it. If you are a believer, you've received a spirit of sonship. You're not merely a servant, you are a son and/or daughter of the King. You don't have to stand in a security line to go before the Lord. You don't have to put your name on a guest list to go before the Lord. You don't have to stand outside the "White House" dreaming up ways to speak to the "President". You are a son and/or daughter of the King of Kings. If someone has a need and wishes to speak with the Lord, you by all means have the power to bring them right before the Lord. No security lines, no nothing, just simply bring them straight to God. Some people don't know they can just call out and God will hear them. Some people don't think God listens...But He does, and cares, despite how it seems. You could be the one to show them that. Anytime of the day you can run into our Father's arms. I don't want to rob someone else the joy of knowing that joy.

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Sorry, a bit lengthy but I guess that's what I got out of our afternoon yesterday. It will forever affect the way I live. Praying to have an eternal perspective for this world.


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